Date: 2018-03-10 18:33
There was one Chinese boyfriend who told me, flat out, that his parents would never accept me. I don 8767 t doubt he loved me in the beginning but once his family knew, I suspect they made it clear that there was no future in what we had. Even my own husband was first told by his parents that he could be friends with a foreign girl, but not date her. Fortunately, their ideas changed when they met me in person!
Could it be that you compare them to the White man/Asian female ? but this pair usually doesn 8767 t end in marriage and is more for 8775 fun 8776 to put it politely . White men often pick those girls to love 8767 em and leave 8767 em , While Western Woman/Asian man usually have a very stable marriage. Or that 8767 s what I noticed anyway.
My wanju xiong is soon turning fifty, and he 8767 s so traditional Chinese he 8767 s a stereotype. Long story short, his ex-wife wanted a richer and more challenging man, so she ran off with his American pal. My fiancee misses his pal, but not so much the ex.
Actually white men are playing an active role in this. By marrying Asian women and moving them and their families to America, they are hastening the day when whites become a minority in this country. I wish the black women instead of complaining about shortage of black men married black African men in large numbers and brought them into this country then whites will become a minority in America a lot sooner and it will be a karma indeed!!
I mean, While travelling I 8767 ve seen tons of Asian men (Chinese, Japanese, Korean ,Taiwanese etc) with western women. I know so many Australian and Kiwi ladies with Asian husbands. There are lots of celebrities who have as Asian father and a Western mother. So how can this be so rare ?!
Chinese people are changing,but it will take more time. China is still a developing Country. Maybe it 8767 ll take another 85 to 55 yrs in order to catch up with everything like high living standards , etc ,etc. you name it.
I 8767 m still having problems, even tho these days I can manage the language pretty well, I 8767 ve adapted to many customs, and I 8767 m not the type who wants to party and play, I want the marriage and the kids!
China is doing a wonderful job on that, so dont worry, soon their influence will be gone. Also when China gets strong enough, we will take care our British enemy and destory them once and for all.
White Anglo-European males and females- most (but not all) think they are so masculine by watching sports and being alpha males, but the cold blooded reality is that they are the most INSECURE morons out there. If YOU really were truely MASCULINE- have the guts to say you are WRONG admit MISTAKES and cop whatever will come your way. You might think you are pretty. Ask yourselves this question- are you really? Are you THAT INSECURE that you constantly have boast about how well you REALLY look??
Its true that western media often dismiss Asian Men as less masculine/manly by their physiques and behaviors. Just because we don 8767 t have big facial feature (noses, eyes and etc ) somehow we are viewed as less masculine??? If you listen to what western women say about dating Asian men, its often that Asian men are not as masculine looking as the western men. Its also true that a lot of Asian women believe in in many AF/WM couplings!
IMHO this is bull. But stereotypes die hard!